In a world in which sex sells just about everything it’s no surprise that women have to deal with unwanted sexual advances. In one for or another this has taken place since the beginning of time. It wasn’t right then and it’s not right now.
There is never any justification for man or a woman ( yes there are women who do) to force themselves sexually or any other way on any other human being.
A real man never has to feel the need to force himself on a woman just because his little toy is all excited. That little toy is used for another purpose a lot more often than for sexual pleasure. While thinking about this topic it reminded me of being awaken by my sister decades ago and she was all in tears. What had happened was she had gone out with some friends and she had on a pair of jeans that were pretty much painted on her backside and some guy tried something. She didn’t like my response which was ” he shouldn’t have done it but when you walk out the door like that some guy may very well try something” In no way do I justify what he had done but there did need some accountability on her behalf. In many ways our culture has become so crass towards everything that those who are truly abuse get ignored. When accusations get made once they get made they are out there forever. When unfounded accusations are made people’s reputations and careers are ruined. Although not the same but the parallel can be made.
Former U.S. Labor Secretary Ray Donovan under President Ronald had been charged on numerous criminal acts for which he was found completely innocent. The government case was so weak that the defense never called one witness. His famous quote is as follows: “Which office do I go to get my reputation back?”
Men when you force yourself on a woman you pretty much are saying my few seconds of physical pleasure are worth damaging another human being forever?!
Then there is only one question left, Is it really worth it?