If we were totally honest with ourselves there is something that our emotional hearts are missing. You see there are dirty little secrets that we all carry deep inside and would deny them to the bitter end. In reality we are humans and with that comes certain desires and needs and there is nothing wrong with that.
Caregivers are pretty close to the top of list in hiding their needs and desires. It really isn’t about sex it’s about sharing time with another person that you can just be yourself and they don’t sit in judgement of you. There is an old Statler Brothers song called
” Different Things To Different People”. The tag line talks about being so many different things to so many people and this question is ask? Can I just be me to you? It’s an issue that caregivers deal with on a regular basis. You give so much time and energy to the person you love your needs get buried. It’s just a harsh reality. As I have often said it’s the small stuff I miss and not the big stuff. The big stuff although more serious to deal with in someways easier.
So yes I do have a heart full of voids and the thing is I don’t know how to fill those?