We have all heard people say that they can’t do something when in reality is the really don’t want too. If there is something in life that you really want to do then you will know matter what. We live in a culture in which expressing your true feelings can almost be seen as a crime. The older we get we probably in more subtle ways get the point across that we really don’t want to do something. Sometimes it is simply because our bodies just are not up to it doing what is asked. Then there are those times that it is the person who is asking you to do something is the problem not the request itself. So saying letting someone know that you just don’t want to do something is ok.