I find it rather amusing when young married men think they are in charge because they are only fooling themselves. There are two kinds of married men. There are those who think they are in charge and then there are the rest of us who know better! In every aspect of married life if as a married man you need to understand that fact. Now for those of us who have been married a long time you understand that marriage is a rollercoaster. Don’t get me wrong as men there are certain things that you go do whether you like it or not!
One of the things that helps a marriage last is that your wife needs consistency from you.
Sure things and situations change over time but in the end your core values shouldn’t change much. My wife knows that there are 3 or 4 things I simply won’t budge on. My step-daughter and her uncle thought it was a wonderful idea to use our home address to get car insurance approved because she lived in a different state. That is called fraud and her mother knew I wasn’t going to stand for that! My wife really wasn’t happy about the way I handled it but those things do happen. So many young married men what to control their wife. ( like that would work with my wife) If you are truly devoted to this person why would you want to control her? That makes no sense to me at all. So married men out there what kind of man do you want to be?