With mother’s day coming in the next couple of days some of us face a harsh reality. Unless the worst event in my life I will never see my mother dead or alive and that is my reality. We are several hundred miles apart and that is a major factor but so are other big factors. Her and I have discussed it on more than one occasion. The only way I could do that is to take a risk that I am unwilling to take. When I do lose my mother it will be tough but as I write this we are at peace with each other and in the end that is all that matters!