As we go through our days it is not uncommon for someone to ask someone else how they are doing? It is a nicety that is very common but in most cases it’s not really sincere. When I ask someone how they are doing I really am curious as to how their day is going? As humans we are so good at putting on public faces while inside we are longing for someone to really care about them. The truth is many people in our lives have some kind of agenda. They have a vested interest in how you are handling certain situations. Of course these are the same folks who will lie to your face about what is happening in their lives. Of course when you are sincere with another person that means both of you have an unspoken understand that this is something both of you really want. Which often can be a good thing.